A ‘relationship’ with emotionally unavailable is always a sudden On and a subsequent Off.
It is always a great time shared together and then a much longer lonelier time shared with your brandy bottle, suspended in an unknown.
On and Off acquaintance with emo unavailable can really last for years, if you both have separate fulfilled lives and don’t place a relationship or marriage at a top of your agenda.
You may simply appreciate each other’s presence around, stay in touch, share life views, interests and leisure activities, but you never talk about what you really feel for each other – is it love or something more abstract. Or how long and on what grounds you are going to continue together in future.
If a person you keep in projection is emotionally unavailable, make peace with the idea that he will have the hardest time attributing your relationship or ever making…
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