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Blame Game

So if you ever speak to others on cheating I’ve had many women friends tell me that you shouldn’t blame the other woman who was cheating with your man. Nope sorry. It takes two to tango. Two for everything so if you think I won’t put the girl on blast you are wrong.

I finally read an article that I saw on facebook where they did put the blame on the other party. Sorry he didn’t just face first fall in your vagina. When it became more than friends and you guys were sending nudes and sexting. At any minute did you realize what you were doing? When you met up secretly to eat, then ended up in bed. No it was the alcohol. This is the funny part that my ex said he was drunk all the time. Yes he lies but it does give you a laugh when you know he has to get piss ass drunk to put his penis in you.

So Miss 40 year old Mets fan.. I feel sorry for you. Not only because your favorite baseball team is the worst there is nor because you tattooed them on your body. I feel bad because you opened up your legs for a man you met online. You knew he was seeing someone. He posted a status in regards to me that you even replied too. You damn hypocrite. He lied told you things but when you invited him over you still had my sloppy seconds.

It’s funny how my ex linked me to this app called circle. Two years ago. It used to show me where my friends were I knew right off the bat when it said Arverne he was with you. You wanted so much more. You watched him lie to you and date the asian girl. So while he was sleeping with us both there was her. You weren’t even good for him too. You were good to open up your short legs too but nope not good enough to replace me.

You still weren’t good enough and you’re his friend to even be told about his father passing. But he wanted to try something this time. Knowing I’m not a bad person he decided to go where the low point is. Yea you. You deserve each other. You aren’t good enough. He doesn’t want me. So he has to settle because you just open your legs. No other girl takes his game anymore. So until how long this lasts? We all know.

So is opening your legs worth it? At 40 who wants to play the screwing game. Companionship that’s the thing. Anyone can have affairs and open their legs. I want someone who just doesn’t mind cuddling with me. Who will just be there when I need them. I don’t need a fuck buddy.. I guess you do.. I guess you do..

Seriously?

When I tell Steven and Gina about what happened to Austin and I, what came out of their mouths was not what I expected!

Gina said yes it happened to her. Don’t feel bad. Her guy was living with the girlfriend. But would take Gina to moms home. Steven told me, that just happened Saturday night to my sister in law. Except the guy had two families
With both ladies.

I guess I’ve seen it on soap operas, tv shows but you never truly believe you will be the one involved in someone’s double life. I guess I got burnt, I got out unscathed. You hear of nasty bitter relationships like this that lead to violence.

Now I hope that my girls will avoid men like this for the future. Cross my fingers!

Little boy!

To whom it may concern:

As a woman who works her ass off to support her family, just because I have more than one child doesn’t make me a whore. Doesn’t mean I need to get laid or I like sex. Well we all do but I’m tired of getting approached by married men or attached men!

I work in a warehouse. I wear tees jeans and my hair in a ball cap all the time. I don’t wear skirts or heels. I’ve worn a dress maybe three times in the past five years! So I don’t know if I’m emulating a thirty something “MILF” but geez down boys. This little boy I call him, when they’re in their twenty’s and try to kick it to me I don’t play games.

This boy got my number and wants sex so bad. Meanwhile he tried to kick it to me in front of his almost two year old, one month old daughter and kids mother. So damn up my ass just for sex. I just broke up with a cheater who the hell do you think I am to mess with a guy that is attached. I don’t break up homes. Screw you find a mature lady elsewhere. Keep watching porn.

So yes I don’t need to be with a child whose a total asshole.

Reality set in

So today Danny posted many pics of his sister for her birthday and his nephews graduation. I go on Instagram when I was having lunch and see he posts a pic of him and Lana. It said happy 2 year anniversary! I love this woman.

We only broke up 6 months ago. He went with me on vacations and basketball and hockey games. We just had sex a week ago. Not saying he isn’t capable of love but two years when you never was alone.
You can’t let go of one without having a back up. It’s not to me the anniversary part it’s foul to do. Especially to her. But like someone said he’s her problem now.

Good luck but Danny you’re gonna break her heart also. I can’t make her see it I was blind too. I guess if you can change do so. If not you will be alone.

My heart hurts. But I will be ok.